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Book Re­view: “First They Killed My Fa­ther” by Loung Ung

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Loung Ung had it all-- two lov­ing par­ents, warm din­ners, and a house full of sib­lings. Al­though her fam­ily was­n't the rich­est in the neigh­bor­hood, they cer­tainly weren't strug­gling to put food on the table, ei­ther. But at the end of the Khmer Rouge's reign, she had nearly lost every­thing. Her haunt­ing tale is doc­u­mented in her mem­oir, "First They Killed My Fa­ther," and her aching words speak for both her­self and the thou­sands of Cam­bo­dian souls lost along the way. 

Loung Ung was only five when Cam­bo­di­a's po­lit­i­cal land­scape be­gan to shift. The rise of dic­ta­tor Pol Pot left her com­mu­nity torn and trou­bled as peo­ple be­gan to pick sides. Loung's fa­ther, a well-known of­fi­cial and an ed­u­cated man, found him­self and his fam­ily at risk sim­ply for his promi­nence and knowl­edge. The Ung fam­ily left their city with hun­dreds of oth­ers. Un­be­knownst to them, their ex­o­dus from their home city marked the be­gin­ning of the end. 

Al­though the true (and fright­en­ingly re­cent) story of the Khmer Rouge is al­ready hor­ri­fy­ing enough, Ung makes the pain even more real for her read­ers by choos­ing to write her nar­ra­tive from the first-per­son per­spec­tive of her­self as a young girl. If there is any­thing more heart­break­ing than the mass mur­der of a coun­try, it is hear­ing the tales of forced la­bor and phys­i­cal vi­o­lence from the voice of a child who is un­able to process the hor­rors that are hap­pen­ing to her and her fam­ily. 

Ung's un­break­able link be­tween the his­tor­i­cal as­pects of Pol Pot's reign and her emo­tional con­nec­tion to the tragedies that be­fell her turn "First They Killed My Fa­ther" into a truly stag­ger­ing mem­oir. Those that liked the book and want to fur­ther their knowl­edge about the Cam­bo­dian geno­cide may also be in­ter­ested in Net­flix's film adap­tion of Ung's mem­oir, which can be found un­der the same ti­tle as the book.